Why we laugh and its relationship with our happiness, bliss and stress factors
Whenever we laugh - here we are not talking about mechanical or show-off laughter but when it comes from our within – the motivation that makes us laugh could be for following reasons
- 1. We laugh when we have put someone down
- I.If we are motivated to laugh only when we make some look smaller – is cruel
- II.The people with this motivation will have anger as a dominating emotion and can never have peaceful existence
- III.Neither can they perform better in any team situation - family, social, professional
- 2. We laugh when we see other's failures or laugh at other's misery
- I.If other's miseries and failures makes us laugh - then however much we have – we will never be satisfied
- II.This is "a grass is greener at neighbor syndrome".
- III.People with this motivation are filled with negativities most of the times.
- 3. When we laugh too quickly or for very little or no reason
- I.People who laugh too quickly or for no and little reasons are the people who have not yet come to terms with, accepted and overcome their - their past setbacks, hurts, griefs and sorrows.
- II.These people are in denial mode as they are putting up a façade of being happy
- III.These are the people who will ALSO cry for little or no reasons.
- IV.These people focus on external factors to make themselves feel happy – many times they are convincing themselves of their lies that their faking externally is making them really happy
- 4. When we can laugh at ourselves
- I.When we can laugh genuinely at ourselves openly & publicly
- II.These are the people who are normally confident people without ego
- III.These people normally can create a lot of happiness for others and in turn gain the respect and cooperation of others
- IV.They are the people who make mistakes but move on – so these people can be quite successful.
- 5. When we genuinely feel happy and laugh at others happiness, successes and achievements
- I.The people who becomes happy at other's happiness, success, achievements are the people – who are most of time motivated, happy and successful
- II.Their internal wiring and software is designed for creating and sustaining positives.
- 6. When we can laugh at the most negative situations - we are going through
- I.The people who can laugh at the most challenging situations at the situation itself - are more likely to see the advantages and positives in every situation
- II.People and as a result there-off are rarely stressful
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