By Subhashis on 11-13-2018
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How to be Yourself

In this article you will learn

How to be yourself all the time – the authentically you. How to be the real you

How to discover the joy of knowing yourself. How to be comfortable with being yourself

When we understand and know who we are – we have the clarity about what we need to do to get where we want to reach.

But when we don't know ourselves – we start looking at others – to look for their validation, approval, appreciation and acceptance.

Once we know ourselves - we will understand our purpose - will create bigger impact on the world.

So why we ignore the warmth, the security, the feel-good feelings of being authentic - and hide our true selves.

Many of us put on a mask — to cover-up our faults, weaknesses and insecurities.

BUT after a while -that mask starts developing cracks – as no one can live comfortably in somebody else's skin.

You might wonder why it is so hard to take our mask off – the primary reason is that authenticity - can be painful.

Because understanding yourself can mean recognizing your shortcomings and putting them on display for world to judge.

This is very-very tough thing to do as it requires real conviction, real courage, concentration and introspection.

Emotionally-insecure people can never be comfortable with who they are -as a result there-of they will have a miserable existence with low self-esteem, fragile self-confidence BUT they will have extremely high EGO.

Emotionally insecure people also would find it difficult to feel at ease even their closest relations – as they would be constantly projecting their own - self-doubt, fears, suspicions etc. on everyone.

There's no doubt that belonging to communities, groups, circles - is important.

But equally important is being comfortable and confident with Being who we really are AND living our life the way we want it.

Insecurity causes many types of fears -although most of our fears are self-imposed.

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